The Golden Girls Retirement Plan. Could this beloved 80’s sitcom hold the solution to the impending retirement crisis facing America’s workforce? Or even provide some much-needed help over a few financial planning hurdles for the LGBTQI community?
By David Rae Certified Financial Planner™, Accredited Investment Fiduciary™
Living like the Golden Girls could make your retirement more enjoyable and help your savings go further. The gay community faces an array of specific challenges when it comes to retirement, and watching some episodes of the Golden Girls may shed light on ways to make some of these hurdles just a little easier to overcome.
Picture it: Living with a Golden Girls Retirement Plan.
Spending your golden years surrounded by good friends, making life more enjoyable, and helping your retirement savings stretch even further. You all know the show; four single ladies end up living together and grow into the best of friends. For a variety of reasons the reduced cost of shared housing was a necessity for these Golden Girls.
We know this show was ahead of its time on issues like AIDS, gay marriage, coming out, unwed mothers, discrimination, cross-dressing, immigration and many other topics, but it also was quietly ahead of the curve when shedding some light on the impending retirement crisis facing the aging US population. Gay retirees share many of the same threats to a secure retirement faced by these funny ladies. As a group, we are more likely to be single in retirement, and less likely to have children, both of which can greatly decrease the safety nets available during these years.
With some proper planning, a “Golden Girls” retirement may be a great way to help make your golden years more fulfilling, and help make your hard-earned dollars provide more security in what could easily be a 30+ year retirement. Blanche, Rose, Dorothy, and Sophia came together out of necessity, hopefully, you and your friends can come together to add friends, and get the added benefit of a higher standard of living than you might be able to enjoy on your own.
Side Note- The Golden Girls highlight the financial truth no one wants to learn: You could have all the money you need to become financially independent but it means nothing, absolutely nothing if you have no one to spend it with. This doesn’t have to be a sexual partner, it could be some good friends or family.
Which Golden Girl do you most represent financially?
Sophia: (Estelle Getty) seemed to be in the best shape financially of the four Ladies, who lived off a pension and social security, while her daughter, Dorothy, had to sacrifice some of her own spending to subsidize her mother, Sophia. (early representation of the Sandwich Generation)
Dorothy: (Bea Arthur)was the divorced, substitute teacher who kept working to make ends meet while she dealt with her mother (Sophia) who lived with her. You may recall she even had a cross-dressing brother.
Blanche: (Rue McClanahan) is quite arguably known as everyone’s favorite “Popular” Golden Girl. Her husband passed away, and renting rooms in her house was a necessity to maintain her standard of living. In addition, she “slaved to the bone 12 hours a week” at her job to make ends meet. Don’t forget she had a gay brother.
Rose: (Betty White) was retired, from St. Olaf and moved to Florida when her husband passed away. Money was tight; the company that provided her pension went bankrupt which left her worried about becoming an old bag lady.
The Golden Girls Family:
I’m going to assume very few of you reading this are widowed 60-something grandmothers, but all the same, I’m sure many of us will face similar challenges when it comes to retirement. I love the idea of spending my golden years surrounded by friends and family, but I’d prefer this type of living arrangement was a choice rather than being forced to live with strangers simply because I couldn’t afford to live on my own.
Think of how much money the girls save by combining household expenses. Those saving could be rolled into luxuries you may not have been able to afford on your own like a gardener or even house upgrades, or even other fabulous things like travel, or theater tickets. Personally, I think these savings may pale in comparison to the value of just knowing someone is there to hear about last night’s date, or even listen to a St. Olaf story, or just hearing “Thank you for being a friend.”
Shared housing can have its drawbacks as well, and isn’t for everyone. But if you are behind on your retirement savings or just like having people around, this may be an option to retire and stay retired. The lower your expenses are in retirement the longer your money with last, and longevity of life is one of the biggest issues facing retirees today. Increased longevity has made running out of money a serious threat facing many seniors.
Childless in Retirement?
The cold hard facts are that about 80% of gay retirees are single, and 90% have no children. So paying for your retirement falls squarely on your own shoulders. While not having children may mean a bit less security in old age, it does allow you the opportunity to save a lot more money during your working years. Make a point to get your retirement plan on track, so you have the option to be a Golden Gay in retirement, rather than just having to get a roommate to simply keep the lights on, or worse you might end up at the dreaded “Shady Pines” or somewhere even worse.
Keeping yourself out of “Shady Pines” type nursing homes may not just save you money, but help extend your life. Finding ways to keep you and your friends living a healthy, socially engaged, independent lifestyle shouldn’t be just a personal goal but should be a societal priority. Golden Girls’ living could even be looked at as an “extra insurance plan.” An example of this occurred when Rose went in for her triple bypass, and the other girls were there to help her through this difficult and expensive time.
Please take a moment and answer these two questions below. Which Golden Girl are you the most like? And would you be open to a Golden Girls living arrangement for your golden years?
For More Golden Girls Give “Rose Fights Back, Golden Girls Retirement Plan Part 2” a read.
“Blanche Devereaux : Golden Girls Retirement Plan Part 3”
Golden Girls Financial Issues Spotlight on Women
Live for today, plan for tomorrow. Remember to always stay Golden.
DAVID RAE, CFP®,AIF® is the Los Angeles Gay Retirement Adviser with DRM Wealth Management. A regular contributor to the Forbes.com, Advocate Magazine, and Huffington Post Queer voices and a financial planner proudly serving friends of the LGBT community for over a decade. More info on his website, www.davidraefp.com.
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I am a Golden Girl, age 64 and although I’m near ‘retirement age’, I’m not retiring at age 65! Why? Because I like what I’m doing; teaching yoga/Pilates and making and selling jewelry. I’ve been doing this my whole adult life and I see no reason to stop now just because I’ve reached a ‘certain age’! I saved scrupulously and feel comfortable with my nest egg. I could retire at 70 and will probably collect Social Security at that time, but intend to keep working as long as I feel like it. I have friends that have no savings and are forced to work. Their only savings is the equity in their homes, a bed place to be! I just purchased a new home and am enjoying the quietude and peace. I don’t see me ever being comfortable living with others as I need that solitude. I am married but my husband became disabled and blind and is in a nursing home. I don’t have his second income, it’s just me now. It’s working out fine, so far!
Love it! Keep up the good work!! Just back from a Yoga retreat myself…..No reason to retire if you love what you do. Keep it up.
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